Now we all know feminists have an entirely wacked out way of thinking these days. I mean, normal people don’t dress up like vaginas to fight for the right to tear a baby’s limbs off. But one feminist writer for NYmag.com took it to a whole new level of crazy when he described monogamy as being “sexist”. He seems to think that if a man doesn’t let his wife sleep with other men, he is trying to control her.
Michael Sonmore speaks about his own personal experience saying,
“As I write this, my children are asleep in their room, Loretta Lynn is on the stereo, and my wife is out on a date with a man named Paulo. It’s her second date this week; her fourth this month so far. If it goes like the others, she’ll come home in the middle of the night, crawl into bed beside me, and tell me all about how she and Paulo had sex. I won’t explode with anger or seethe with resentment. I’ll tell her it’s a hot story and I’m glad she had fun. It’s hot because she’s excited, and I’m glad because I’m a feminist.”
Are you kidding me? He claims that it has made their marriage much better, and I can see why that is. If I had to be married to this wuss, I would be happier sleeping with other men too! What ever happened to respecting your vows of marriage? Since they have a 3 year-old and a 6 year-old, they take turns with their infidelity. Sonmore claims that sleeping around “feels like a mature, responsible way to address our needs and desires within our loving, mutually supportive marriage.”
I’m sorry but I expect my man to be UNcomfortable with the idea of me being with anyone else. That doesn’t make him “sexist”, that makes him MINE, and makes me his. Sonmore thinks that couples shouldn’t be “trapped” in marriage vows.
“For my wife, the choice between honoring our vows and fulfilling her desires was a false choice, another trap. She knew how deep our love was, and knew that her wanting a variety of sexual experiences as we traveled through life together would not diminish or disrupt that love.”
He goes on,
“Celibacy is as valid an expression of sexuality as profligacy. The point is that it should be women who choose, not men — even the men they’re married to.”
This is why I have such an issue with feminism. Feminist do not want equality, they want to be superior to men. So I have a message for all the men reading this I hope that you share. If your spouse tells you that you are sexist for not letting her bump uglies with another guy, kick her to the curb. She isn’t a “feminist”, she is a SLUT. Too harsh?
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